Tag Archives: friendship

The Suffering of Worry

**this was written in 2018** “Worrying means you suffer twice.” Read it again. “Worrying means you suffer twice.” If something is going to happen – it’s going to happen. So let it happen when it happens. There is absolutely no reason to worry your entire day away about your roommate burning down the house whileContinue reading “The Suffering of Worry”

Validation Victims

Constant validation is a hard thing to wrap around my mind. Why does something always have to be said in order for it to be felt? Validations happen in moments, there’s not always something to tell. But the constant need to be told exactly how one feels and what they think is crippling. It’s likeContinue reading “Validation Victims”

Cancel Trolls Gone Wild

**This was written sometime in 2020** You know how I’ve always wanted my own show? How I’ve always loved writing in my blog and sharing more opinions and random thoughts that I have going throughout my head? I now find myself hesitant to both of these things because the world is extremely sensitive, literal, andContinue reading “Cancel Trolls Gone Wild”

Ethereal Love

I expect love to always feel like love with the person I end up with. Is this a flaw? Is it unrealistic to have the expectation that someone can continue to give me butterflies after the honeymoon phase? Am I being way too optimistic that someone who makes my heart feel abundantly whole for theContinue reading “Ethereal Love”

Explore Your Options

I think one of the coolest things about moving away from my hometown was I had the opportunity to create and find who I am, without preconceived notions of who I was while growing up. It’s proven our environments and the people who surround us influence our lives subconsciously. No matter how aware we areContinue reading “Explore Your Options”

I love my people.

Honesty is probably the most attractive thing in a person. When you’re honest, you bring safety. You create an aura full of nakedness. An essence of  truth and openness. A desire to just BE with that person.  Honesty ensures connection. Sharing your true self. Your straight-forward thoughts. Your sincere wishes. Your darkest secrets. Your wildestContinue reading “I love my people.”

Hi, this is for you.

This is a letter to anyone and everyone who I have encountered in my life. You are my friend. No matter how deep our relationship is, you are my friend and I care about you. Even if I don’t personally know you, you’re my friend and I care about you. If you need someone toContinue reading “Hi, this is for you.”

Bracelete in Disguise

Hi.  I have a little story that is dear to my heart. I’ve spent some time with this story to myself because it’s golden. It’s special. It just warms my heart when I think about it.  So – a little over a month after graduating I was having a FaceTime date with one of myContinue reading “Bracelete in Disguise”

Thank you, Puss.

I feel like I’ve been suffocating myself.  No. I know I’ve been suffocating myself.  I’m so scared because I want my dreams to come true SO bad, that I’m rushing the process. But in reality, rushing the process is pushing the process away.  I’m becoming my own worst enemy. I dabble into so many thingsContinue reading “Thank you, Puss.”

My Doodles

One of the things I like to do in my free time, when I’m feeling inspired, or when I don’t know how to express a recent emotion or thought that I have been dealing with, is doodle. (Sorry that sentence was so drawn out, but as of right now after re-reading it, I still thinkContinue reading “My Doodles”