Validation Victims

Constant validation is a hard thing to wrap around my mind. Why does something always have to be said in order for it to be felt? Validations happen in moments, there’s not always something to tell. But the constant need to be told exactly how one feels and what they think is crippling. It’s likeContinue reading “Validation Victims”

Hi, this is for you.

This is a letter to anyone and everyone who I have encountered in my life. You are my friend. No matter how deep our relationship is, you are my friend and I care about you. Even if I don’t personally know you, you’re my friend and I care about you. If you need someone toContinue reading “Hi, this is for you.”

Self Care 101 – The List

I’m 22. It’s an odd age because I have just finished college and entered the real world and even though I have a degree, I still had and have a long journey of figuring out what I want to do, but even more important how I’m going to do it.  Since I’ve been on myContinue reading “Self Care 101 – The List”

Softy

I wanted to change up the tone of this blog a bit because I feel like my writing has consisted a lot of serious, “me in my feels,” type of posts and that’s truly not how I am what-so-ever. BUT, I realized I do have that little soft side of me and I only reallyContinue reading “Softy”

Conquering a Fresh Start

A fresh start. There’s nothing quite like it.   I don’t think I realized truly what a “fresh start” was until recently. My pre-adulthood idea of a fresh start was the Monday after a long recovery Sunday of doing absolutely nothing. HAHA. Everything changes after you graduate, DON’T DO IT.     Anyway, I hadContinue reading “Conquering a Fresh Start”

Thank You, My People.

It’s cliché – but it’s true.   People enter our lives, some stay and some go. Each one contributes a lesson, a blessing and an experience in life nonexistent without them. People are such an important role in life that allow emotions to thrive like never before. Emotions that make us vulnerable. Emotions that makeContinue reading “Thank You, My People.”

A Letter to Myself.

This is a letter for the girl who is struggling. The girl that just can’t seem to do anything right. The girl that feels like her world is crumbling down. This is a letter for the girl who wants to break down and give up. Don’t do it. Don’t give up. You are stronger thanContinue reading “A Letter to Myself.”

The Adventure of Falling in Love

I fell in love for the first time. It tore me apart and lifted me up. It crushed my heart into pieces and then mended it back together. It turned me into a person I never was before, and brought me to the person I’ve always wanted to be. It brought upon the death ofContinue reading “The Adventure of Falling in Love”