Validation Victims

Constant validation is a hard thing to wrap around my mind. Why does something always have to be said in order for it to be felt? Validations happen in moments, there’s not always something to tell. But the constant need to be told exactly how one feels and what they think is crippling. It’s likeContinue reading “Validation Victims”

Timing is Underrated

I was thinking about this while playing pin ball in Portland the other night. (I forgot how much I love this game, by the way). Some would say it’s a game of luck and the ball will take you wherever it wants to go on its time. Which I can’t disagree with. The ball doesContinue reading “Timing is Underrated”

August 19, 2021

I’m torn between wanting to acknowledge this day for someone who ALWAYS deserves acknowledging, and not wanting to celebrate the day someone so dear was aggressively torn away from everyone they love. But is that selfish of me? To not want to acknowledge the day that someone else took the life of our loved one?Continue reading “August 19, 2021”

Happy New Year!

Hi guys, Happy 2021! I’m sorry I haven’t written in a bit. I’ve actually been working on some other fun projects that have me expressing my emotions and thoughts in new ways. All of which I’m excited to share as they come to fruition! Before I tell you some exciting news, I want to giveContinue reading “Happy New Year!”

Dirty Politics

I’m not one to talk about politics. EVER. It does nothing but infuriate me. It gets me worked up because I don’t understand how having common sense to do what’s best for ALL people is just completely disregarded. How can you govern people and not do what’s best for them?! People say, “well, you can’tContinue reading “Dirty Politics”

Cancel Trolls Gone Wild

**This was written sometime in 2020** You know how I’ve always wanted my own show? How I’ve always loved writing in my blog and sharing more opinions and random thoughts that I have going throughout my head? I now find myself hesitant to both of these things because the world is extremely sensitive, literal, andContinue reading “Cancel Trolls Gone Wild”

How You Live Your Life, Is A Choice.

One thing that has really been on my mind lately is active mindfulness. Knowing you are in control of your life and doing what it takes to enjoy it as best you can. I don’t know what this life means, what happens next, or how we got here – but I do know that IContinue reading “How You Live Your Life, Is A Choice.”

Such a Big Ego

You know how sometimes you judge someone else’s situation simply because you’ve been through your own things in life that their complaint just doesn’t quite level with? And you kind of question how someone can be so ungrateful for the situation they’re in because it could be A LOT worse? Well what if that hurtContinue reading “Such a Big Ego”

Explore Your Options

I think one of the coolest things about moving away from my hometown was I had the opportunity to create and find who I am, without preconceived notions of who I was while growing up. It’s proven our environments and the people who surround us influence our lives subconsciously. No matter how aware we areContinue reading “Explore Your Options”

I love my people.

Honesty is probably the most attractive thing in a person. When you’re honest, you bring safety. You create an aura full of nakedness. An essence of ¬†truth and openness. A desire to just BE with that person.¬† Honesty ensures connection. Sharing your true self. Your straight-forward thoughts. Your sincere wishes. Your darkest secrets. Your wildestContinue reading “I love my people.”